I think it’s safe to say that no matter how
confident they are, most women are insecure about a thing or two . . .
especially when it comes to dating. Here are seven of the biggest ones,
and what you can do about it.
1) That
you won’t call
Women are always stressing over whether or not
you’re going to call them after a date. So if you tell her you’re going
to call her on Tuesday, call her on Tuesday.
But if that’s just not your style, or you’d like
to keep her guessing, don’t give her a definite day when you’ll call.
It’s better than breaking a promise, and it saves her from waiting for your
call on a particular day.
2) That you just want to sleep with
her
It’s a fine line: if you make a move too soon,
she’ll think that’s all you want. If you wait too long, she’ll think you’re not
interested.
The best way to work this one is to just be
sincere. If you’re actually interested in a relationship, let her know. From
there, she’ll give you the signals to let you know when she’s ready to get
freaky.
3) That you are
dating other women
It’s okay to casually date more than one person
at the same time . . . as long as you’re honest about it. You don’t have
to bring it up, but if SHE does, be honest.
But once you start sleeping together, or things
seem to get more serious, she might assume you’re exclusive. So it’s only
fair to let her know if that’s NOT the case.
4) That you are
not interested
Even the most confident woman sometimes needs a
reminder that you’re interested in her. Even if you’re months into the
relationship . . . or even years . . . she’ll still need reassurance now and
then.
5) That
another woman is stealing your attention
There’s nothing wrong with harmless flirting.
But when you’re out with her, you should devote your attention to HER.
The easiest way to think about it is to reverse
it: How would you feel if she was flirting with another guy right in
front of you?
6) That you are cheating on her
If she’s worried that you’re cheating on her,
there’s usually a reason: maybe she’s been cheated on before, or she knows
you've done it in the past.
But if that’s not the case . . . and even if you
think she’s being totally irrational . . . you’re going to have to discuss the
issue head-on and let her know that you’re committed and have no intention of
cheating.
7) That she is
not satisfying you in bed
Women worry about how they’re doing in the sack,
just like men do. So if things are going well, make sure you let her
know.
And if things AREN'T going well, you've got to
bring it up in the most sensitive way possible.
T99
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